Mental Thinking

私が変わらせてもらったイメージング力、メンタル力、質問力、思考力、行動力、これだけではない力が今の私を作り続けています。 和田裕美さんの本の内容がそのままの以前の私を表しているので使わせていただきました。 ここに２人の男性がいたとします。 AさんもBさんも、仕事で大失敗しました。 ２人とも上司に叱責されて、『あー、もうおしまいだ。クビになるかもしれない』と、とっても落ち込んでいました。 【Aさんの場合】 Aさんは自分を責めて、次の日も『自分なんか、どうせダメなんだ・・・』とヘコんだまま会社に行きました。 会社に行ってやる気なさそうに無表情になっていたら、周りの人もAさんに話しかけにくく、だんだんAさんを疎ましく思うようになります。 Aさんは孤立して、さらに人と話すのが嫌になってきました。 そのせいで余計に、1人で仕事を抱えすぎて処理ができなくなり、また小さなミスをしてしまいます。 そうしているうちに自然と自分の居場所が会社になくなって、ますます嫌になって辞めたくなりました。 彼はクビになったのではなく、自分で辞めたのです。 【Bさんの場合】 同じように落ち込んでいたBさんですが、泣いても怒っても事実は同じだと思いました。 そして、『失敗したという事実を変えられないんだったら、ここから何を学んだか、何かいいことを探してみよう』と決心したのです。 『今まで過信していたからだ。これ以上悪くなる前に問題が発覚してよかった』 『これは大きな失敗だけど、ここで気が付かなかったらもっと大きな失敗をしたはず。今のうちに、気付いてよかった』 『自分の不注意から、他人に迷惑をかけた。今後はそういうことがないように、自分が有頂天だったと気付かせてくれたメッセージだと思おう』 『つらいけど人に謝ることを教えてもらってよかったじゃないか。ここで素直になって、感謝しよう』 そして彼は思います。 『明るく出社して素直に謝って、新人の頃のように初心に戻ってやりなおそう。きっとそんなチャンスをもらったのだ』 会社に行ったBさんは明るく挨拶し、上司に謝罪しました。 そうしたら上司も、『昨日は言いすぎた、私の指示もよくなかったのだ』と言ってくれました。 元気に出社したBさんを見た同僚たちが集まってきて、『がんばろうな』『明るい顔して来たから、さすがって思ったよ』と言いました。 彼はそこから仕事の新たな面を見つけて、ますますがんばろうと思ったのです。 ※同じようなひとつの事実から、違うふたつの人生が見えます。 みなさんは、Aさんの人生、Bさんの人生。 どちらの人生がいいですか？ でもこれは2人の人生ではないんです。 どちらも1人の人間の人生です。 考え方を変えただけで、一方は新しい人生を拓けたのです。 まずは、目の前の事実を受け入れます。 逃げても騒いでもだだをこねても、そこにある事実は『なかったこと』にはなりません。 ひとつの事実からふたつの人生 この思考力を身に付けてから生き方が変わってきて今も変化し続けています。 長文を読んでいただきありがとうございました? If there are people who feel something after reading it, or if there are people who want to change in the future, let's talk about it?LanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.

First of all, "Is AI an enemy?" What do you think? I think that whether you make AI an enemy or an ally, it all depends on the way of thinking and desire of the person who develops it. That's what this article is about. As it is written in this article, "We are now standing in front of a door that leads to a world where we don't know what will happen." Once you create AI that exceeds human control, you will surely not be able to go back. There is also the possibility that the world you saw in the movie will come. That's why I want everyone to use it together and use it to promote artificial intelligence AI technology that is more in line with the providence of nature and helps everyone to be happy. LanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.

There is a teacher at Hachiman Junior High School in Hamamatsu City who is working on peer support at the school site, and instead of educating and imposing the learning on the students, "peer support" in which students understand theoretical communication methods and support each other with their peers is said to be carried out by Naodo Kamo, who is in charge of guiding new teachers at Hachiman Junior High School in Hamamatsu City. Vice-principal Masuaki Watase talks about the significance of the importance of preventing communication errors and creating a school that is close to the concerns of peers, it is necessary for teachers to learn communication methods according to their developmental stage and incorporate them into their daily lives. I think that this kind of peer support is not only in schools, but also in adult society, within the company, and other organizations, where there are situations where communication cannot be reached due to differences in thinking and awareness. If we adults and parents can learn, understand, and use this peer support, we will deny or rebel against other people's opinions, collide with each other, get into fights, and hate that person. I think the dilemmas that occur a lot in the adult world will be resolved a little bit.〜I think. After all, we adults are the examples of children🤗Children grow up watching their parents see what we are doing😃Let's be a wonderful example❣️LanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.

Awareness of dementia There is no set law at what age a person begins to cognition. Some people do not develop the disease even after the age of 90, while others begin to recognize it after the age of 50. In such a situation, June 23 of the Chunichi Shimbun(Friday)I would like to share the article with you. When you are diagnosed with dementia, those around you give up on this and that, and increase the number of things you can't do. It has been pointed out that medical care can make people with dementia, Mr. Maeda, the chairman of the corporation that operates the facility. Mr. Maeda conveyed his thoughts on the theme of "recovery from giving up" at a meeting of the bipartisan Parliamentary League. Through work and other activities, you can make friends who can show your weaknesses to each other, and it will be a source of sustenance. This will lead to the motivation to live with dementia.' On June 14, the "Basic Law on Dementia" was enacted by bipartisan parliamentary legislation. The official name of the law is "Basic Act on Dementia to Promote the Realization of an Inclusive Society", which is a big step forward in the inclusion of the wording to promote the realization of an inclusive society. Kazuko Fujita, representative director of the Japan Dementia Working Group, said, "Prevention is not unnecessary, but it is a means and not an end." It is said that the purpose of prevention is to spread the false perception that "dementia is over" and excessive expectations for prevention. Kumiko Nagai, director of the Tokyo Center for Dementia Long-term Care Research and Training, said, "The main focus of the Basic Law was to continue to live as a normal person even if you have dementia. Furthermore, it is said that "the idea that people with dementia are a burden on society just by being supported will be changed to a new common sense and value that they will build a vibrant society together while demonstrating their individuality and strength. LanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.

Chunichi Shimbun June 17(Saturday)From the article! Haruki Takeuchi, professor of the Department of Biological Sciences at the Graduate School of Science, the University of Tokyo Professor Takeuchi, who studies the mechanism of smell, has verified the efficacy and effects of smell at the cellular level while using mice. This research can be applied to medical treatment, etc., but you are also working to elucidate the effect of smelling to improve study efficiency and sports competitiveness. As a field where research can be utilized, the easiest to understand is the effect of preventing disease. If the decline in olfactory function can be suppressed, it may be possible to suppress the worsening of the disease. The other is the relaxing effect of aromatherapy. And what I'm trying to do now is to smell the effect of improving the effect of studying and sports performance. It seems that some data has already come out, such as filling a room with a certain smell to reduce calculation errors. What is interesting is the olfactory input during sleep. It is the only one in the five volumes that does not occur even if you enter it. There is also data from mice that show that smell reaches the center of the brain, unlike other senses. It seems that entering a scent has the potential to greatly change the state of the brain. I think that when humans smell smells that are inherently wary or irritating, the level of alertness increases. The other is the idea that if you smell it when you succeed, and try again with the same smell, the success rate will increase. It seems that you need to try both. Read this article to learn about the wonders of the human five senses and how to stimulate them to achieve results.?Artificial intelligence now(.AI)has become a hot topic, but this feeling we humans have is artificial intelligence(.AI)I don't think you can feel it. Let's use our five senses and feel a lot today.

I ran on the rails laid by my parents. I wanted to be recognized, so I went to my desk. But no matter how hard I try, I get angry that I don't put in enough effort. His parents blamed him for the test results and rebelled for the first time. "I'm not a puppet," my father pulled me out of the house. Both of the male student's parents are teachers. He has high hopes for the future of his only son, who has excellent grades. I realized that even if you don't have the educational background that parents are most important, there are people who are recognized by society and make money. Is it okay to be at the mercy of your parents? His hesitation was reflected in his grades, his score dropped on the final test, his parents found his hidden answers, and he was blamed for more than 5 hours, and he couldn't stand it anymore and ran away from home. His father scolds him for placing second in his grade on a test or winning a silver prize in a painting competition. "Think about why you can't be the best and what you're lacking right now." Even if you think you've achieved your best results, high hurdles are imposed one after another. The male student compared the pressure to a 100-meter run and said, "It seems that people say, 'If you can't run in the 9-second range, you don't have enough effort.'" He explained. After hearing the student's story, the man felt that he was suffering from too high expectations, and when he told his father, he was immediately refuted. "It's for the sake of the person who wants to work hard. When you want to work as a doctor, lawyer, or a major bank or trading company, it's too late to try. Even if you don't like it now, there will definitely come a time to thank your parents later," but the male student said, "There is no love, no gratitude, only hatred." The feelings of parents and children do not overlap. The male student regrets that he rebelled against his parents, saying, "I let my emotions take over," but it is not a reflection. Because he showed a part of his true feelings that he wanted to hide. The male student has a secret plan to pretend that his parents will follow the path they want, and then choose a completely different career path right before the goal. Please, drop it at the end. At the most effective time, break parents' values. The man said that he felt dangerous when he spoke calmly. The male student confided that in the future, he would like to revitalize the dilapidated old folk house and stream a video of the process. "I want to give new value to worthless things and reincarnate them." I don't tell my parents that either. Because it will only be denied. For now, I just have to endure it. What do you think of such a child who thinks about himself? Aren't we parents just pushing our children's thoughts without listening to their children's thoughts for the sake of their future? I thought about it. LanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.

I felt that it was important for adults to understand and listen to children more by calling this article. I tend to look at children who are suffering from being scolded by their parents for not being able to study, but it was not enough to read the textbook and copy the blackboard at the same time in class, like this child, and it seemed like the same thing was repeated. When the teacher asked me who I understood, I was happy when I raised my hand and answered first. However, after that, he was surrounded by his classmates and told "You're noisy" and "Shut up," and he ran into the infirmary crying. The school nurse recalled that some children didn't think well of him for being able to understand everything. "Am I different from everyone else?" When I was in the third year when a boy learned to get by with anxiety, a classmate approached me during recess and said, "I'm arrogant because I can study." From that day on, I felt heavy before going to school. When I stopped speaking in class so as not to feel the same way, school and classes became boring. "Studying is supposed to be a fun thing to learn about things you don't know." His uncontrollable curiosity led him to the railway, which he had loved since he was a child. My interest expanded even more, and I learned about the structure of Japan's politics, which I had not learned in class. When I talked about it to a friend I thought we could talk about at school, he looked troubled and walked away from me, saying, "I don't know that." "No one will listen to what I'm saying that is interesting, and if it's enough to make fun of me, it's better not to say it." I stopped expecting to be excited with my friends. I also got used to suppressing my feelings at school. It's not that I'm being bullied. There are days when I feel lonely when the voices of the children around me frolic. In such cases, I envision a map in my head, and when I grow up, I want to become the president of a railway company and create a new line. Even if it is declining now, there are definitely areas that will develop if the railway passes through it. If you have a friend who listens, you have many dreams that you want to talk about. After reading this article, are teachers and adults listening to this child's story? I felt doubtful. I hear that the number of children with developmental disabilities is increasing because they cannot socialize with their peers, but are they really sick? Do I have to be with everyone? Are we adults seriously listening to the child's thoughts, what they want to do, and what they feel? LanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.

Life is a play. Playwright, director, director, it is only one person, it is incomparable, thoughtful, unparalleled, warm, and there is no time when it is not reached. I am afraid that it will be so subtle. On top of that, there are criticisms, rewards, and rewards and punishments, but they are fair and selfless, and there is no oversight or excess. This play is a large-scale, uninterrupted play that continues to dance from ancient times to eternal future. At that time, how do you direct the place to fit the plot of truth? Sometimes there are scenes of watching a play on a stage performed by others. No matter what you look at, tragedy and comedy are being performed. Novels and movies are explanations that cut out parts of this life drama. "The protagonist of that great play is myself" from Toshio Maruyama's "Shiori of Happiness for All People"(Feeling of being an old man): How do you feel after reading the above? There is no good or bad way to feel❣️However, how you feel and how you live your life in the "here and now" is also a way of life on the stage of your own life〜I think🤗We are kept alive in various environments. It seems that life is made so that you can choose how to live in that state so that you can play the leading role🤗First of all, how should we live today?💝LanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.

Adler also admits that everyone has an inferiority complex. Inferiority complex itself is not a bad thing. We humans are born into this world as helpless beings and have a desire to get out of that helpless state. "I want to improve" and "I pursue my ideal state". At that time, you feel as if you are inferior to yourself for not reaching your ideals. Adler said, "The pursuit of superiority and inferiority complex are not diseases, but a flourishing tree for healthy and normal effort and growth." There is nothing wrong with this inferiority complex. However, there are people who are discouraged from taking a step forward and cannot accept the fact that "situations can be changed with realistic efforts". They are people who give up before they do anything, saying, ''I don't care about myself anyway'' or ''I did my best anyway.'' This is not an inferiority complex❕It's an inferiority complex. The word "complex" is used as if it were synonymous with "inferiority complex". Originally, complex is a term that describes a complex and perverted psychological state and has nothing to do with inferiority complex. "Inferiority complex" itself is not particularly bad. Inferiority complex can also be an opportunity to encourage effort and growth. Even if you have an inferiority complex about your educational background, it is desirable if you decide from there, "I have a low educational background, so I will work many times harder than others." On the other hand, the "inferiority complex" indicates a state in which one has begun to use one's own inferiority complex as a kind of excuse. Where there is originally no causal relationship, they explain themselves as if there is a serious causal relationship and convince them. The question is how to face such a reality. If you think, "I can't succeed because I have a low education," you must think that it is not "I can't succeed," but "I don't want to succeed." "I'm afraid to take a step forward" and "I don't want to make a realistic effort." I don't want to change my current enjoyment, such as play, or time for my hobbies. In other words, they do not have the "courage" to change their lifestyles. Even if there is some dissatisfaction or inconvenience, it is easier to stay as it is.(Some excerpts about inferiority complex)Adler's teachings "The Courage to Be Hated" ReferenceLanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.

When I heard this story on Yoshito Kamoto's YouTube, I thought it was really true. And today's children who will create the future of Japan in the future. From kindergarten and elementary school to junior high school and high school, from the age when adults obediently accept what they are told, to the age when the ego sprouts based on the value judgments accepted by adults, and their own thoughts and ways of thinking are created, all of them are applied to the social system created by adults. Because it is also in my subconscious mind, I forget what I was told when I was a child and mistakenly think that it is my own consciousness and way of thinking that I am about to become an adult. That's why it's important to look around now and look at not only Japan but also the world from a broad perspective. That's why please listen to Yoshito Kamoto's talk about communication. LanguageThis page was automatically translated. Please note that it may differ from the original content.